Stanley Travels: “Me, She and MaGee” at Camp John Waters

Everyone likes John Waters.  Well, everyone who knows what’s-what likes John Waters.  And when you’ve lived in Baltimore for as long as I have, you feel some hometown pride whenever his name crops up.

So it was a bit of a no-brainer when Mr. Bothered and I heard about Camp John Waters. A whole weekend at a summer camp in Kent, Conn just for grown-ups.  We got to celebrate the art and work of John Waters – with John Waters.  Like, he was there.  He performed, he judged costumes, he hung out.

It was pretty JohnWatermazing.  I just made that word up.

And so, I picked the song that I thought was the most appropriate, picked a couple quite-is spot to record one morning, and came up with my latest Stanley Travels video.

Stanley Travels: “Abracadabra” at GenCon 2017

I’ve been dreaming of going to GenCon for nearly as long as I’ve been gaming. And I started gaming in 5th grade, way back in 1982! But… for various reasons (I was 10?) I just ever made it priority. By the time I was old enough to go as a grownup, I hadn’t been involved in gaming for a while.

Well, with the release of 5th Edition D&D and my daughter finally bein old enough to convince her that running around dungeons as an elf was a great way to spend a Sunday afternoon, I began to game again.

Simultatiously, my buddy Patrick has been going to GenCon for, like a hundred years (okay, maybe not 100). And every year he hits me up to see it’s the year I finally bite the bullet and go.

And finally, this year, I was able to say yes!

So, I packed up my dice and smallest ukulele and hopped on a plane to Indianapolis and… had an AMAZING time! Four days of nothing but eating and playing games. And a little sleeping.

To make the weekend even better – the musical guests this year were They Might Be Giants – heroes of mine for nearly 30 years.

So here is my video from the weekend. My take on a song that was popular way back when I started gaming, and who’s magical references seems pretty appropriate.

I hope you enjoy it!

You can keep up with all the Stanley Travels videos here!

Finding Sugar Man

Oh wow – that was a transcendent show.  Mrs. Bothered, her mother, a friend and I piled in the little Botheredmobile at noon yesterday, and ran ourselves from Baltimore up to Pittsburgh to catch the elusive Rodriquez live in a rare concert.  It. Was. Amazing.

If you don’t know who Rodriquez is – don’t worry.  Not having people in the U.S. know who he is, is kind of his jam.  Tragically.  Go to iTunes or wherever you choose to stream movies, and watch the documentary, Searching For Sugar Man.  I’m not joking, this is not a drill, just go do that.  You will then know who Rodriquez is, and why it was so exciting to see him perform live.

As much as I’d like to, I’m not going to go into the story of Rodriquez here.  It’s amazing, it’s tragic, it’s filled with mystery, discovery, unfairness, then redemption – and all surrounding a true, true, true genius in the most literal sense of the world.  Again, find and watch Searching for Sugar Man.  It’s all there.

I would love to tell you the story of Rodriquez, but others tell it much better than I can (including my wife, who has been following his tragedy-to-glory tale from some 20 years.  Also, have I mentioned you should watch Searching For Sugar Man) – and the show last night was so wonderful that I want to focus on that.

Rodriquez is getting old.  He’s in his 70′s.  He’s nearly completely blind.  He’s also quite shy, and soft spoken (In his younger days he performed with his back to the audience.) but his performance was so sweet, so enduring and so powerful that you couldn’t help falling even more in love with him.


For me as a performer, the most instructive thing he did was take his time.  With everything.  This is something I struggle with personally when performing.  There is so much to do when onstage, and I’m always afraid the audience will get impatient.  “Move on with it” I can imagine them saying with each moment.  And, you know, nerves.  I still get them.

So it was really refreshing and encouraging to watch Rodriquez: Take. His. Time.  With everything.  He had costume changes… of a sort.  With an impish grin he would change hats, or change sunglasses.  At one point he put on a pair of steampunk goggles with glowing lenses.  He did not rush these changes. He waited while his guitar was tuned. He took his time reaching for his water bottle – feeling for it with his hands, as he couldn’t see it.  He took his time making sure he remembered the guitar licks before starting into each tune. He joked a little bit, but didn’t need to say much.  We watched him. Intently.

And it worked, I think, because we were watching a man being.  As a performer, and a former actor I can say that’s one of the hardest things to do on stage… to, just, be.  But here is a man that is so sincere, so connected with himself that we just ate it up.

And of course it wasn’t all waiting – and the waiting was worth it.  He pulled up most of the tracks from his two albums.  He was so there, so with his music, it was really magical.  Maybe knowing the backstory influenced the moment.  If you know how much we all missed out because of the circumstances of his career (unless you lived in apartheid South Africa) then seeing this man finally recognized in his home country was purely rewarding.


It was fun watching his band, too.  They were session musicians, I gather, brought in to back him up.  Rodriquez doesn’t have a band.  He doesn’t really have anything, except his guitar and his daughters.  I imagine the band had approximately one rehearsal with Rodriquez.  But, you wouldn’t have known it – except that you could clearly see the enjoyment they were experiencing by giving this man his due onstage, and playing with other great musicians.  The chemistry between the drummer and the lead guitarist was particularly fun to watch, as the cheerfully and skillfully worked to keep up with Rodriquez as I’m pretty sure he was getting a little… organic… with the set list.

The show was at the Carnegie Library Music Hall in Pittsburg – a beautiful theatre.  It was the perfect size and atmosphere for such a heart-warming show.

So, again, check out Searching for Sugar Man – and if you get a rare chance to see Rodriquez  like, for the love of God – take it.  You won’t be disappointed.

Stanley Travels: “Three Chords and a Smile” at Dinosaur Land in White Post, VA

Nestled in the heart of the Shenandoah Valley is a cozy little cabin, built by Mrs. Bothered’s stepfather back in the 60s. We visit there often, and very near there is the famous Dinosaur Land. It’s one of our favorite places to hang out when we are in the area.

The dinosaurs are derpy, some of them don’t even make sense. The gift shop is confusing in it’s wide array of… everything. The location is right off a pretty busy highway. But you just can’t beat the kitschy silly charm of it all. And at $6, it’s one of the most reasonable road-side attractions we’ve found.

And it turns out, it makes a pretty great place to shoot a video! We confused the heck out of some of the other visitors… but that’s part of the fun of it, right?

Stanley Travels Rules:

  • Audio will be recorded on location. Background and ambient noise is part of the location.
  • Audio will be recorded in a single, live take.
  • The location will be one that Stanley traveled to for other reasons. He can’t travel to a location just for the sake of a Stanley Travels video.
  • There will be something interesting, nay quirky, about the location beyond the fact that it’s just some place Stanley traveled to.
  • The song selection need not correspond thematically with the location, though bonus points if it does.
  • Stanley’s traveling companion(s) will serve as the camera/audio operator(s). If Stanley has no traveling companion, then he will just have to figure something out.

Taking Wilfredo’s Wild Ride!

Last night I got to catch Wilfredo at The Ottabar in Baltimore.  I ran across Wilfredo a couple of years ago, on Youtube, while doing research on people who sing funny songs and I’ve been a fan ever since.  So, I was very excited to see him perform live.

And I wasn’t disappointed. Not only was the whole show great – burlesque  performers from NY and Baltimore with Wilfredo performing interstitially – but Wilfredo himself really pulled it off.

Why do I think his act works?  Well, his commitment to the persona is absolutely 100%.  Maybe 150% if that’s possible.  And the persona is funny. He is a conspicuously unattractive man who attempts to exude sexiness through sheer will and confidence.

Sometimes, when you are enough of a legend in your own mind… you can actually become legendary.  And when you are the sexiest man alive in your own opinion, you can become, well, sexy. But in Wilfredo’s case, neither is true – and the disconnect is friking hilarious.

His writing and performance really work for me as well too.  The ability to perform stupid original songs, and completely predictable covers in a way that is fun and surprising is a true talent, and Wilfredo pulls it off.  When he presented Mrs. Bothered with a flower during his opening number, I couldn’t even be jealous.

But for all of his character and silliness and faux-panache… there is an honesty and truth to Wilfredo’s performance, and I loved it.  There were soft moments where he was able to really connect with us in the audience.  Then of course, he would hack up a lung and make us cheer for his butt.  And so it went.

If you get a chance to catch him live as Wilfredo’s Wild Ride swings through the east coast, I suggest you do it.  You won’t be disappointed, and you will laugh a lot.

You can also find his music in iTunes, Apple Music and Spotify… and of course, YouTube.

Unboxing: Caramel CP200 Sopranino Ukulele

I just got my Caramel CP200 Sopranino Uke – hang out with me as i unbox it and give it it’s first spin!

You can get your own, here: http://amzn.to/2tuHt1I

***NOTE*** This is not a review, just an unboxing and *very* first impression. It took some time after shooting the video to get it to stay in tune, and get used to playing it. Perhaps i’ll post an actual review of it soon.

Stanley Travels: “Pas De Deux” at Mr. Anderson’s House in Picton, Ontario

An original Stanley Bothered number, performed at Mr. Anderson’s House in Picton, Ontario.

Mrs. Bothered and myself spent a wonderful weekend in Prince Edward County, Ontario in the adorable little town of Picton. We stayed at an AirBNB called “Mr. Anderson’s” house. It was a lovely little house completely done up as if it were a set from a Wes Anderson movie.

Actually, each room is themed after a specific movie – and it will test your knowledge of Mr. Anderson’s movies trying to figure out which room is based on which film.

While in the Prince Edward area, we visited Vader’s Syrup Farm, and picked up some “Dark Vader” syrup. They seemed pretty unaware of the connection their name (which is the name of their family and has been the name of their farm since far before the galaxy long ago and far far away) had to the iconic movies – which made it even more charming.

We also happened to be in town for the Great Canadian Cheese Festival – so of course we had to check that out. I have never in my life eaten so much cheese in a single day. It was glorious!

From the many vintage shops, to amazing restaurants, to the great sand dunes on Lake Ontario, and the best sunset ever from Lake in the Mountain, we had a wonderful time in “The County” and look forward to returning soon.

Stanley Travels Rules:

  • Audio will be recorded on location. Background and ambient noise is part of the location.
  • Audio will be recorded in a single, live take.
  • The location will be one that Stanley traveled to for other reasons. He can’t travel to a location just for the sake of a Stanley Travels video.
  • There will be something interesting, nay quirky, about the location beyond the fact that it’s just some place Stanley traveled to.
  • The song selection need not correspond thematically with the location, though bonus points if it does.
  • Stanley’s traveling companion(s) will serve as the camera/audio operator(s). If Stanley has no traveling companion, then he will just have to figure something out.

I’M GONNA VISIT KAZOOBIE KAZOO FACTORY!

If you’ve seen me perform, you know exactly how important my kazumpet is to me.  Well, I’m about to visit the Motherland of kazumpets, the The Kazoobie Kazoo Factory, Museum, and Gift Shop in Beaufort, SC 29906.

They make kazoos and, apparently, the kazumpets that mean so much to me.  What will the tour be like?  Who knows!  But it looks like I will get to make my own kazoo, and will probably spend a million dollars in the gift shop.

You can find much more info about Kazoobie at their webiste.

Stanley with his beloved Kazoobie kazumpet